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Graduation at school: a relic of the past or a memorable event? Graduation at school: how to make the holiday unforgettable What is the graduation party at school

Thanks to the wave of anti-corruption rallies that began in March this year, schoolchildren have now become perhaps the most important newsmakers: at a protest rally in Tomsk with a fiery speech a fifth grader spoke, a schoolboy from Vladikavkaz came to the E center because of a comment on VKontakte, a school director from the Bryansk region argued with students about geopolitics. The Village went to the citywide graduation in Gorky Park to anonymously talk with yesterday's schoolchildren about the agenda: rallies, video bloggers and prohibition on the main day of the Moscow graduate.

20:30

The citywide graduation took place on the night from Friday to Saturday: a disco with the participation of Basta and label signers Black Star continued until six in the morning. Alcohol during the farewell to the school was strictly prohibited, before the start of the holiday, the park, closed to the public, was searched several times: “The last check was at 18:00 today. Everyone who expects that some surprises could have been left here in advance - they are no longer here today. There are no problems to spend this evening in Gorky Park today in a fun and interesting way, ”Alexander Kibovsky, head of the Moscow Department of Culture, reported before the graduation ceremony.

In order to get to the territory of Gorky Park, I had to get accreditation, bypass several barricades, listen to the banter of bored riot police (“I don’t have such a beautiful bracelet”), obediently defend the briefing of a friendly employee of the park’s PR service (“You downloaded the Graduation-2017 application ?”) and finally it’s embarrassing to walk along the red carpet occupied by photographers all alone. Inside the park, a military band was waiting for me, which competed in volume with a straight barrel rumbling from the stage, volunteers with flags, clowns on stilts, and, remembered from the recent Russia Day, knights with swords fighting to the sounds of an accordion. Graduates were just starting to arrive. They were divided into groups, passed along the red carpet in portions and immediately led to a small stage where a forced interview took place: “So, what school do you represent?”

Deepening inside the still empty park, I find two schoolchildren in neat suits. Danila is interested in IT and does not want to “just sit in a closed room and stupidly earn money”, Andrey is going to enter a prestigious technical university, but he is already working - he launches airships at Dynamo Moscow hockey matches. I start talking about Navalny. "He's the best. We are looking forward to the rallies! No, of course, this is sarcasm, - Danila laughs. - We are apolitical. We know the guys who went. It’s a useless exercise, you can’t change anything anyway.”

I'm shifting the conversation to bloggers. I remember Sasha Spielberg, who recently spoke in the State Duma. "This not normal. The country is already in a mess, why make it worse?” Daniel perks up. “Bloggers do not have any education, why do they climb into the Duma?” - adds his friend. “Well, about education, I would argue - there, Wylsacom graduated from the law faculty,” Danila replies. "So what? Khovansky won, too, was finishing something! Andrey sums up. At first, classmates refuse to answer questions about alcohol. I explain that the interview is anonymous. “Well, of course, we will drink, it’s a holiday. Is alcohol prohibited? How to say. In general, yes, but when we go for a walk further, in this regard it will become easier. And if there was an opportunity to carry it here, we would, of course, carry it. ”

22:00

It starts to get dark. I return to the main entrance, trying to go around the main stage. Buses continue to pull up to the park. Schoolchildren are noisily unloaded and for some reason are transferred to a limousine clumsily painted with a pink spray can. I run into three smiling graduates - Gleb, Ira and Katya. “Insanely waiting for Yegor Creed and Mot! And Basta is a serious uncle, but his songs are sad, - Ira rejoices. - It's cool that they offered us to vote and make a choice. They voted for Mot - he is a baby doll. "Drink? And where? We were searched. In general, we are already ready, ”friends laugh.

They watch bloggers with pleasure, but they are dissatisfied with the performance of Sasha Spielberg: “They have no place in the State Duma. Sasha Spielberg bathing in chips is not cool. She performed just awful.” Navalny also does not inspire enthusiasm: “None of our people went to rallies, this is absurd. Everything in the world is unfair, so even if I went and was not allowed to take the exam the next day, what's the point? In general, there are other problems: did they really think about children when they did the exam? We have a fairly strong, specialized class, but they failed everyone. Everyone knows mathematics well, but they wrote 45–50 points as best as they could. What is there: our teachers would not have passed the exam.

Nearby are two strong graduates - Ivan and Nikita. Mandatory on Van White shirt and a ribbon, but Nikita came to the prom in a big jacket and Adidas sneakers. Concerts? If something happens, then let's go,” Nikita squints. “We want bass! - his friend adds in a hollow bass. - Do you know "Slow"? I would like to listen to such a track. “What are we interested in? Yes so. Well, what can we be interested in ... ”- the graduate in sneakers argues. “Sport! - rescues his friend. - What? Everyone! He is a hockey player and I am a boxer. I try to defuse the situation: "Guys, this is an anonymous interview." Graduates exhale: “Oh, yes, they would swell already. But we will not be in the park: they are scurrying around. In general, it was possible to carry, but conscience began to play. Let's go for a walk in the courtyards of Moscow, to the district.

23:00

“The ice is melting” is playing for the third time in the evening, the DJ turns off the sound on the chorus, the schoolchildren happily pick up. The host announces a break: “Thank you guys! Well, we continue to raise the degree ... uh, musical degree! I'm walking along the waterfront. The path to the Neskuchny Garden is blocked, I'm coming to a dead end. I meet Dima, a freckled, curly-haired graduate in a bow tie. “I'm waiting for Basta's concert. The rest is not necessary. Lineup is not relevant for young people - why call Lazarev in 2017? Dima picks up the conversation about politics with pleasure: he is going to enter the Moscow State University for political science and even went to the rally on June 12. “My friend was then detained - they just took him from the crowd and took him to a paddy wagon. Fortunately or unfortunately, at that moment I moved away a little, so I remained at large and calmly wrote exams. The desire to go to rallies has not disappeared, but why? Our constitution guarantees the right to calmly go out into the street.” The flushed graduate admits: “Well, of course, we have already drunk. It's simple: you take Coca-Cola, you add everything else there.

It's already dark in the park. I meet Dasha and Katya - girlfriends in chokers. “Here video bloggers will congratulate us - I won’t go to them, no! I don't watch them and generally consider them stupid people. The dumber their videos are, the more popular they are. This is wrong: people are deprived of values! They are already speaking in the State Duma - is this generally normal? - Dasha is indignant. Katya picks up: “And who listens to Glucose? We're not listening." Both graduates are apolitical, and they are not going to drink today: “I want to remember this day. In general, we are for a healthy lifestyle.”

Near the volleyball court sit two teenagers in style: one in a yellow The North Face and Air Max jacket, the other in a snapback and ripped jeans through which tattoos show through. “Do you want to talk about Navalny? Won't they take us? friends laugh. - We have a positive attitude towards him. Now they act not according to the Constitution in the country. Why the hell is she even needed?” I ask if they have heard about the rallies. “Of course you heard. My brother went there. He says that there were a lot of people and these people were, let’s say, confident.”

The guys are waiting for the performances of Basta, Mot and Creed. Then they'll drive to the club in Red October, "next to Gypsy." “Well, of course, we drank a little today, graduation. This year they're being hard at work - it's sad. But in any case, you can always have fun without alcohol,” they say.

This important gala evening, which marks farewell to the school in the 9th or 11th grade, is eagerly awaited by both graduates and parents. That is why the organization and design of such a holiday should be well in advance. Prostobaby tells how a prom or a ball at school goes, how to prepare for it, what parents will have to spend money on.

As it will be

The organizing committee, which includes representatives of the school administration, the parent committee and alumni, is responsible for preparing the prom. They are developing the script for the evening, staging musical numbers, decorating the hall where the solemn ceremony will take place. Their task is to organize a graduation party at the best level.

Usually, the celebration begins with the gathering of graduates and their attendants at the school, where the official part of the holiday takes place - the graduation ceremony, at which graduates receive congratulations and parting words from representatives of the school, district, and parents. As a rule, after the solemn part, a small concert begins.

Note to parents: it will be interesting if the official part ends with some entertaining action - all graduates release balloons into the sky with wishes inside, or a small tree will be planted from each graduating class in the school park.

After the official part, if it is provided for by the celebration plan, the graduates go for a walk around the city. Then they, along with their parents and invited teachers

going to a celebratory banquet. Depending on the decision of the parents, a restaurant, club, cafe or boat can be rented for a festive banquet.

Fireworks are held at the height of the holiday. And in the morning, tired graduates go to meet the dawn. The graduation script may vary depending on the tradition of celebrating the prom in a particular school.

We discuss organizational issues

The main responsibility in preparing the prom rests with the parents of graduates. To do this, they meet at the parent meeting and discuss organizational and financial questions. Traditionally, such a meeting is held at the beginning of the school year, since parents have time to solve many problems. Among them are the determination of the venue for the solemn banquet, the discussion of the cultural and entertainment program and the number of people who can accompany the graduate, the choice of a photo and video operator, the purchase of gifts for teachers and the school. The collection of money for the celebration, all agreements and purchases of the necessary are usually carried out by members of the parent committee. The size of the general budget is discussed at the meeting, but during the year it may change. AT recent times raising money for prom is practiced in stages - throughout the academic year.

For many parents, the most important question is how much it will cost their family to celebrate prom. The price of the question this case depends on many factors:

  • the cost of the banquet menu (per person);
  • festive decoration of the banquet hall;
  • the work of the photographer and videographer at the celebration;
  • host services;
  • entertainment program (if it is not included in the cost of the presenter's services);
  • fireworks prices;
  • rental of transport for transportation of graduates (if necessary);
  • gifts for teachers and school;
  • ribbons for graduates and invitation teachers;
  • graduation photo album.

The amount that will have to be spent on the prom depends largely on the prices at the restaurant, as well as on the number of people accompanying the graduate. If the parents plan that one of their relatives will be at the banquet, then this should be taken care of in advance. It is important that parents will also have to pay for teachers invited to the banquet, representatives of the school administration (this amount is divided into all). It is better to choose and book the venue for the banquet as early as possible, especially if there are several schools in the city.

At some graduation parties, parents do not go to the banquet by general prior arrangement. It may be that they refuse to go to him for the purpose of saving or for their own convictions, so as not to embarrass their children with their presence. The very question of whether parents should be at the prom is quite controversial, and it needs to be decided together with the child.

Some parents invite a professional host to prom. A DJ often works in tandem with him. The services of a prom host can be provided by a holiday preparation agency. By the way, it can take over not only this function, but also the preparation of the entire prom, however, for an additional fee.

As for gifts for teachers, they can be commemorative or “in an envelope”. The choice of a gift for the school from the graduating class is best discussed with the class teacher.

Readiness number one

Future graduates are also actively preparing for the upcoming event, and think, first of all, about their appearance. Another item is added to the total amount of family expenses for graduation - a graduate outfit. Traditionally, young men wear a classic suit and a shirt with a tie or bow tie for prom. Girls pick up an evening dress, handbag, jewelry. It is better to choose smart shoes, but as comfortable as possible - you will need to spend at least 12 hours in it. If possible, take a spare pair with you. It would be useful for a girl to take a shawl or a light cape - it can be cool at dawn. Ignoring the established rules, some graduates come to the holiday in casual clothes. It is clear that this does not look very appropriate, however, the main thing at the prom is a good mood.

If for young men the preparation for graduation is almost completed, then the girls still need to resolve the issue of hair, makeup and manicure.

If there are skin problems, it is advisable to visit a beautician a few weeks before graduation to eliminate them - this applies to both girls and guys. Some beauty salons specifically for such an event offer graduates to purchase a package of special services.

Usually girls and boys come to the prom in pairs. However, it will not be shameful to come there alone, or just with friends. The main thing is not to forget to buy a bouquet of flowers to congratulate your beloved teacher. Graduates need to worry in advance about the ability to use cutlery. It’s also a good idea to use the services of a choreographer, especially if a graduate has to dance a waltz at a holiday.

but on the other hand

It is no secret that schoolchildren associate this day with the opportunity not only to try alcohol, but also to get drunk "in the insole", as well as get their first sexual experience, if this has not happened before. The order at the celebration is usually controlled by the parents present, representatives of the school, and the police. However, those who wish will always be able to achieve their goals and “distinguish themselves” at the holiday.

All that parents can do is to have an explanatory conversation with their adult child in time. Her tone should not be didactic; it is better to refuse demands, strict prohibitions and appeal to the consciousness of the graduate. Well, if there are no taboos on communication topics in the family, then the conversation about sex will be softer. It is important to let the child know that you are on his side, since you were also once a teenager. It is necessary to tell the student about the responsibility that each person takes on when starting an intimate life. After all, the first sexual experience should be deliberate, occur when a person is ready for it. It should bring joy, not worries for possible consequences. Therefore, on the graduation party, it is better for a student to refrain from such a decisive step.

If a graduate is already in anticipation of a drunken holiday, then it is necessary to explain that alcohol is a loss of self-control, which is fraught with consequences (from quarrels, fights, unprotected sexual intercourse to drunk driving), these are memory lapses and a hangover in the morning. As well as the opportunity to end the holiday in the hospital due to severe alcohol poisoning or injury.

I won't be there!

Some of the schoolchildren sincerely perceive the prom as a farewell to the school, for some it is just a way to assert their status in the team. This is expressed in everything - in appearance, in behavior, in the manner of communication. Therefore, the prom is often called a vanity fair, where everyone can compete in their own "toughness". This is one of the reasons why alumni refuse to celebrate such important event. Among other reasons, students name the following:

  • they are not interested;
  • they have no friends among classmates;
  • the funds that will need to be invested in organizing the celebration can be spent with greater benefit;
  • parents do not have money to pay all expenses.

Whatever the decision of the graduate, parents should listen to him and try to accept his arguments.

It is clear that any adult seeks to provide his student with a beautiful and memorable holiday. However, no one canceled the solemn part, and parents will still have the opportunity to admire their child receiving a certificate. And after - you can remarkably celebrate this event in the circle of relatives and friends of the graduate.

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Recently, there has been a clear tendency for modern schoolchildren to refuse to celebrate graduation. Has he become a relic of the past for them and means nothing? We will try to find an answer to this question, and also find out if there are alternative options for the traditional organization of this event.

It is generally accepted that prom This is a special event in the life of every student. So it was under the Soviet regime. Therefore, mothers, fathers, older brothers and sisters with lyrics tell modern graduates about their farewell to school. For most of them, it was a real celebration, which they had been waiting for for many years and for which they had been carefully preparing for several months. Graduation marked not only a farewell to school, but also the beginning of a new stage in life, independence ...

But lately, there has been a clear tendency for modern schoolchildren to refuse to celebrate graduation. Has he become a relic of the past for them and means nothing? We will try to find an answer to this question, and also find out if there are alternative options for the traditional organization of this event.

Prom through the eyes of modern teenagers


In various forums, there are more and more messages from worried parents who write that: "My child is finishing grade 11 and is preparing to enter a university. We all remember our school graduation day, farewell to school, teachers and childhood. This is a ritual. Therefore, I did not even have any doubts whether my child would like to celebrate graduation or not. But then one day my son comes home and declares that they consulted with the guys from the class and decided not to celebrate graduation. I am in a slight shock and confusion, as well as our class teacher, who urgently gathers parents for a meeting. You can guess the agenda without further ado."

Psychologists explain this situation by the desire of adolescents to deny everything traditional and ordinary, as well as the desire to declare themselves and their independence. Modern schoolchildren are no longer the same as their parents, older brothers and sisters were. They live in another century - a century information technologies. Accordingly, their interests and goals in life have changed. Very often, emotions, lyrics, spiritual qualities give way to purposefulness and the desire to achieve high goals. At the same time, many quite consciously consider graduation celebration an outdated tradition that has long outlived its usefulness.

In this case, parents need to speak frankly and heart to heart with the child, find out what is in his soul. Quite often, the child argues his refusal with such reasons that allow him to find an alternative option. For example, sometimes the reluctance to celebrate prom is due to tensions in the class. In this case possible solution The problem will be to invite an outside organizer of the holiday (a specialist from the event organization), who will be able to offer an option that can unite all teenagers. Or maybe the kids don't need a pompous celebration, they just want to wander through the school corridors, sit in their classroom and chat with their classmates for the last time. In this situation, it is quite possible to get by with a solemn part at school and a collective trip, for example, to bowling.

Today, there is an opinion among schoolchildren that prom at school is boring and not fashionable: everyone will just eat, dance and go home. Even some parents believe that the significance of this holiday today is greatly exaggerated.

But after all, the soul of the holiday is not in the assembly hall and the restaurant, where graduates, their parents and teachers will gather, but in the special atmosphere of the event, positive emotions from communicating with friends, in the ritual farewell to school. In addition, holding an informal part of the graduation in a cafe or restaurant is far from the only option for holding a holiday. Note that even money plays a dominant role in organizing graduation (although nothing worthwhile can be organized without them). The main thing is the desire of graduates and their parents to beautifully and cheerfully organize the last meeting with the school.

Non-standard prom options


In Soviet times, there were no great opportunities for organizing original and memorable celebrations at school. And it was not customary at that time to stand out from the crowd. Therefore, all proms were held according to the standard scenario: girls in ball gowns, boys in formal suits, a solemn line, awarding diplomas, graduation, farewell waltz, dinner with dancing in the dining room, restaurant or cafe and meeting the dawn on the embankment (or in the city center ).

Fortunately, in our time the situation has changed dramatically. Today, there are practically no restrictions on the organization celebrations at school(naturally, within reason), and the abundance in shops and services open up unlimited opportunities for the realization of a bright and unusual holiday. We offer you some of the most popular among modern schoolchildren alternatives holding a graduation party.

  • Solemn part of the graduation party on the ship + restaurant.
  • A celebration in an old estate with dressing up, dramatizations and competitions (for example, in Derzhavin's mansion).
  • Graduation in Hollywood style with awards, photo shoot, including against the backdrop of a press wall (a special background wall, like at conferences), filming a video about the class and graduation.
  • Prom in the style of "Chicago" (played on the Chicago theme of the 30s of the 20th century) provides themed outfits. The concept of such holiday at school implies the division of the celebrating into groups: parents, teachers - mafia, students - gangster fighters).
  • Celebration in the "Stilyagi" format (a variant of a stylish party).
  • Celebration at the Russian Museum in the Benois Hall (the program includes dinner, entertainment and a boat trip).
  • A country quest game (for example, on the topic of searching for a secret message).
  • Graduation in the format of the game "Mafia" (also includes a walk around the city in a beautiful retro car and a photo shoot).
  • A holiday on the theme of adventure in a country format. The entertainment program includes not only dancing and music, but also a visit to the shooting gallery, horseback riding, quad biking, fun games, relay races.


It is important to understand that everyone puts their own meaning into the concept of "prom" (it's not for nothing that they say "How many people, so many opinions"). So organization of non-standard graduation it is better to entrust to special agencies that not only have the experience and material and technical base for high-quality preparation of the holiday, but also know how to find compromise options that can satisfy the requirements and wishes of everyone. The presence of an activist-entertainer among the parents will be an additional advantage, since he will be able not only to offer interesting ideas, but also to talk about the features of the class and the relationship between children.

But in any case, no matter how you decide to organize a graduation, magnificent or modest, original or traditional, the last evening at school, with classmates who have been around for 11 years or just with friends, will definitely leave special memories in the soul of every student.

The tradition of celebrating graduation with classmates in Russia was founded by a well-known reformer who, during his reign, managed to turn the usual life of Russians upside down - Peter I.

The first Russian graduates were students of mathematical and navigation schools, as well as military schools. In 1718, students of the School of Mathematical and Navigational Sciences in Moscow celebrated the first Russian history high school graduation.

Yesterday's schoolchildren of that year were young people completely different ages, since the institution accepted "children" from 11 to 23 years old, and training could last 10-15 years.

In 1719, the holiday was held in St. Petersburg. Then the first graduates of the Naval Academy were carousing in the capital of the empire. At that time, graduation parties were combined with the ceremony, which is now called the last call: first, graduates were given graduation certificates educational institution, the teachers and director parted them with solemn speeches, and then a celebratory banquet began for the already former students and teachers.

Gradually, the ceremonial dinner turned into a real bachelor party: the graduates fraternized with teachers, drank champagne, sang songs in chorus, and also arranged fistfights to show valiant prowess.

Over time, another tradition appeared: to order the same rings, which became a symbol of belonging to a kind of alumni club. In adulthood, thanks to these rings, graduates of one educational institution different years could recognize each other as brothers.

The director of the Tsarskoye Selo Lyceum presented the first graduates of the institution, among whom was Alexander Pushkin, cast-iron rings made from fragments of the bell of the lyceum church in the form of interlaced hands.

According to tradition, after the graduation ceremony (that was what this holiday was called at that time), the bell, which had been gathering students for classes for several years, was broken.

The rings became a symbol of strong, brotherly love between lyceum students, who since then began to call themselves "cast iron".

At the farewell ball, friends-lyceum students promised to meet each other every year on the day of the founding of the lyceum, October 19th. And they kept their promise. Alexander Gorchakov became the last lyceum student of the first graduation, who in 1882 celebrated a memorable day alone.

Milk rivers, muslin banks

In the 19th century, the tradition of graduation-bachelor parties changed radically, because now girls began to appear at the holidays. This was not due to the fact that girls received diplomas, because at that time education, especially higher education, was available mainly to men. Parents brought their daughters to graduations in order to find a suitable groom.

For the sake of such a serious matter - marriage, and not getting a certificate - parents did not skimp. In order to equip their daughter for the first voyage at a secular ball, fathers spent thousands of rubles, unprecedented money at that time, which was available only to the richest nobles. On average, up to 3 thousand rubles were spent on one trip of a beautiful daughter, the amount could be more - 10-20 thousand rubles. It is terrible to imagine how the heads of families where there were daughters-weather were ruined.

With the advent of girls at graduation came the tradition of balls and dances, as well as innocent flirting and flirting. Of course, the parents were on the alert, and vigilantly watched the children. At that time, young people at graduation balls danced the mazurka and the cotillion. Later, in times II, graduates with young ladies began to dance the polka and the waltz.

The last dance was considered more intimate, since the gentleman hugged his partner by the waist, and their hands touched, which, by the way, allowed them to exchange notes.

In the 19th century, cadets and cadets started another peculiar graduation tradition - to bathe in fountains on warm June evenings, climb onto monuments and pour paint over them.

At that time, graduation balls were also held in women's educational institutions, for example, at the Smolny Institute for Noble Maidens, but one could get to such evenings only by invitation. Young graduates wanted to impress each other and gentlemen on the main holiday, and therefore ordered themselves dresses made of expensive and light translucent fabric - muslin, which is why the girls, many of whom were infantile and overly emotional, began to be called "muslin young ladies."

While the metropolitan graduates had fun at the balls, young people in the provinces celebrated graduation in their own way. For example, we owe the tradition of celebrating the onset of the first day of adult life on the ship to graduates of the Men's Gymnasium in Krasnoyarsk. The students' parents chipped in and rented a steamboat for their children, which took them along the Yenisei.

By the way, only three graduates could enjoy the river walk.

Of the 70 people in the first intake, only six made it to the last course. Half of them failed the exams, so those three chosen ones deserved not only a river walk and a sunrise, but also that we would mention them as pioneer graduates.

If in the 19th century they tried to make graduation balls as luxurious and rich as possible, then at the beginning of the next century, the holidays became more modest. Most likely this was due to the fact that education became available not only to the richest nobles and noblewomen, but also to representatives of other classes. Gymnasium students and cadets wore the festive uniform of their educational institution for graduation parties. Gymnasium girls also dressed up in the same and rather modest dresses. In addition, during these years, the institutes of noble maidens for the first time began to independently pay for "banquets with music." Prior to this, all material costs fell on the shoulders of the parents of graduates.

Tomorrow was a war

After October revolution In 1917 graduation celebrations became even more modest and strict. Needless to say, even the word "ball" was considered too old-fashioned and bourgeois and was replaced by "evening". Until the mid-1930s, graduation parties were held in the form of solemn rulers, at which the headmaster handed certificates to former students. However, over time, the desire of young people to properly celebrate the beginning of a new life took its toll and graduations began to take place with dance evenings.

On June 20 and 21, 1941, the country of the Soviets celebrated its last peaceful graduations before the Great Patriotic War.

“On June 21, 1941, we had a graduation party, we finished school ... the holiday was very cheerful, joyful, we were all very beautiful. Although the times were difficult, we put on the most beautiful dresses. When we received our certificates, the whole class went to Red Square. One boy had a portable radio, he turned on the music, and we danced a waltz on Red Square. It lasted quite a long time, we laughed happily, dreamed ... And when we danced to our heart's content, one boy went to escort me along the embankment.

He's been in love with me since second grade. If he had survived, he probably would have become a great scientist later, he was such an interesting boy! .. ”, recalls one of the graduates of the Moscow school.

For the next three years, Soviet graduates had no time for big holidays. At that time, only girls studied in high school classes - the boys went to the front. Therefore, in school photographs of the war years, you usually do not see male faces.

The tradition of saying goodbye to school is back in Soviet Union after the war. Even in those difficult years graduates tried to dress up for dances at graduation parties. So, for example, collars with lace ruffles came into fashion, which schoolgirls could sew on their own to the dress.

At the same time, the students of those years were much more mature than modern schoolchildren. Former front-line soldiers who did not have time to get a certificate during the war returned to school again and completed their studies.

At the same time, in addition to the certificate, graduates began to receive commemorative sheets of thick cardboard with photographs of all teachers and lecturers. This is how albums appeared, which are now a mandatory attribute of graduation, and not only from 11, but also from 9 and 4 classes.

Graduation parties were held at schools, while policemen were on duty at the doors, who did not let former students out of the building until six in the morning.

In addition to dancing, there was another entertainment for graduates - skits. The guys staged excerpts from plays and humorous sketches of their own composition. And there were also so-called "sweet tables": the participants of the holiday could treat themselves to pies, sweets and soda, but no alcohol was allowed.

Interestingly, the school issued the characteristics necessary for every Komsomol member only the next morning after graduation. Apparently, this way the schoolchildren had another incentive to keep themselves in control even at graduation.

Graduation from a school, college, lyceum, gymnasium is a milestone of extreme importance, a transition to a new stage in life, or rather, as they say, entry into adulthood. And the graduation party becomes the festive final chord of the long school stage. They prepare for it carefully, starting with festive clothes and ending with the organization of the second day of the celebration.

AT different countries of the world, of course, celebrate this day in different ways, they have a great influence on the way of celebrating traditions bringing national color to this event. Let's see how graduations are held in other countries of the world, let's go ...

1. In Australia schoolchildren celebrate the end of the tenth and twelfth grade. By tradition, it is supposed to arrive at the prom in unusual vehicles. This is not about luxury cars. Graduates have to put a lot of imagination to surprise their classmates. Australian graduates can come to the ball in a fire engine, a tractor or even a wheelbarrow.

2. in South Africa the end of the academic year is at the end of the calendar year. The month of graduation ceremonies is November. Since schooling is still exotic for Aboriginal people in some areas, graduation celebration often a whole family comes with old men and babies, in their ethnic costumes.

3. In Sweden Prom begins with a celebratory champagne breakfast. To the side of each graduate (for girls this is - White dress, and for boys - a suit) a white hat is required, on the lining of which everyone can sign as a keepsake. At the end of the official part at school, graduates go outside and throw these hats into the air. After that, yesterday's schoolchildren get into cars with an open body, decorated with birch branches, turn on loud music and drive around the city. The holiday ends at home, where the guys invite many guests. At the same time, for young Swedes, a graduation party is also an occasion to receive practical gifts that are given to them by invited guests.

4. In Norway graduates dress up in funny overalls different color depending on their future specialty. So red overalls denote economic specialties, blue - for those who will enter the university.

5. In Indian tradition, the main event of the prom is the speech of the headmaster. At the same time, each student receives a small printed booklet, which contains addresses, dates of birth and small comments about each of the graduates. A special "literary committee" is engaged in compiling the booklet.

6. In Poland instead of prom celebrate a holiday stodniowka, which takes place one hundred days before graduation. The celebration begins with an obligatory polonaise dance, the first couple of which are the principal of the school with one of the graduates. After that, the real fun begins with dancing and singing. If the holiday is celebrated at school, then graduates compete in invention and ingenuity to decorate the hall. It is no less popular among Polish schoolchildren to celebrate this event in restaurants, pubs and clubs. There is a dress code: for boys, these are three-piece suits or even tuxedos, and for girls, evening dresses.

7. Graduation in America one of the most romantic. Preparation for the ball begins in advance. At the beginning of the last academic year, the graduating class elects the members of the organizing committee, which will come up with the theme of the ball (for example, "Hollywood" or "Moonlit Night"), decoration of the hall, contests. Graduates begin to think about the dress, hairstyle, makeup, bouquets and accessories. This event turns out to be no less troublesome for young people, because it is supposed to come to the graduation in a limousine, it is also necessary to purchase a flower, which he will attach to the dress of the girl he will accompany. American tradition, the girl cannot come to the ball without a companion. He must come for her by car ( most often it is a limousine), give flowers, take them to the place of celebration and take care of the whole evening. Violation of this law threatens with public censure. At the same time, you can invite to the ball not only one of your classmates, but also from elementary grades or the university. The main condition is that the inviter himself must be a graduate. If a couple could not be found, graduates come in groups of several people. The school part of the ball ends choice of King and Queen, which, as a rule, become the most popular and beautiful graduates. After that, all graduates go to restaurants or hotels, where they continue to celebrate until the morning. Two days later, graduates receive certificates.

Do you remember your graduation party...? Of course, not a single person will forget such a grandiose event in his life!

And for a bonus, watch the thematic clip of Bast - Graduation (2016), maybe remember your school love ...