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Unrequited love is an unsent letter to a woman. How to write a kind and gentle letter to a loved one, a man? And all because I'm truly in love for the first time

Give your beloved a letter in which gentle words will turn into gentle lines with a kind and gentle meaning, with love and respect, with a rainbow of feelings and emotions...

Imagine that you fell in love (very much!) with a man who lives, unfortunately, far from you. You love him for a long time. But you no longer have any strength to hide your love for him. Describe what you feel in writing. You'll feel better. He is more comfortable. Love - do not pay attention to the kilometers separating you! On the contrary, let him understand that kilometers are nonsense, the main thing is feelings!

Write to your loved one

The kind that makes his heart melt. Do you doubt what he needs? You are afraid that he will not reciprocate. You should not be scared. You write!

Do not spread any negativity on the lines. Try to avoid it, no matter how hard it is for you. Soak the whole letter with kindness, tenderness and good mood.

An example of a gentle and kind letter for a loved one

My beloved and affectionate angel! Night. I know that you are already sleeping. And I write because I want you to learn a lot. Even what you already know...

I love you sweetheart! You are unaware of these feelings. Maybe you can guess. You and I are very close friends. You are closer than a friend. This is exactly what I told you. Sorry for repeating myself again.

We never saw each other

We've never met in real life, but I'm looking forward to the day you arrive. Just over a month left to wait. But I will wait for you, my happiness. We agreed that we would leave everything as it is. I will not insist on something, I will not demand anything. It's important to me that we see each other. You know how I look forward to this….

We make fun when we correspond on the topic of love. I try not to show my feelings. I'll tell you what I love when we meet. How do you answer, I don't know. But the main thing is that I will open up to you. Now I'm afraid...

Kitten, you are the very best .... I'm so scared. That you'll find another while we're apart. You once went to the Vkontakte website. It was a summer night. But I know that at this time you are sleeping.

I had two versions:

  • First: “He is not alone. Some girl climbs on his page.
  • Second: “He went online to see if I was there or not. At the same time, admire my photographs ”….

The second one came later. It's always like that: first the bad comes to mind. Jealousy. How she annoys me! I didn't think she'd get into me. And she moved in and does not let go. Will he let go?

About the past

You know I broke up with my boyfriend. And you applied for his place. He called me yesterday. And I also told you about this, because I have no secrets from you. Our mutual friends say that he wants to return to me. And you found out about it. Sadly, without a smiley, you asked: “What are you?”. I thought for a long time how to answer so that you understand everything correctly. And I answered like this: “Most of all I want to meet you. If I go back to him, a lot can change.” You did not answer me for half an hour, which seemed to me an eternity .... Do you remember what you answered? You replied: "Hmm ...". I don't know how to interpret it... That's why I had to say that I was joking again. I polish all the words so as not to offend or offend you.

About future

My dear, you are very, very dear to me. If I lose you, my life will end. And I want to spend it with you! I want to erase all boundaries of friendship…. All! Until one! I want only friendship between us - love.

I so dream of dialing your number, but yesterday you dropped your cell phone. He does not work. This is sad. I don't know the home number. I asked him, but you didn't write. Apparently he was afraid that I would often call you? - Kidding!

I love you! I love my dear boy. Let's be together forever? It's so sad and bad without you. All my friends see how "gray" I am when I'm not talking to you on the Internet or on my mobile. Give me a rainbow, please. My rainbow is you and your feelings for me….

I dream not to let you go…. I want your touches, your caresses, your kisses .... Do you know how I imagined our first meeting? You call me from the station, say that you have arrived and wait for me at the entrance. I run out of the vestibule doors, call the elevator .... You are in the elevator. You come out of it, take me in your arms and kiss me sweetly.

Stop

I forgot that we are not dating, but friends. How I wish it was different. I love it when you call me angel.... Soon I will put a new status on Vkontakte: “I work as a personal angel for my closest friend. I'm not going to quit." I'm so tired of virtual communication. The sun is my favorite, come soon. I don't claim much. I just want to see you. I promise that I will hold back all the impulses of passion that live in me for you. I promise that I will kiss you on the cheek, as we agreed. I will fulfill everything that I promised you, my beloved sun.

Patience running out

I am ready to rush to you now, my happiness. I can't stand it, I'll buy a train ticket, and I'll come to you. There are five hundred kilometers between us. These are huge little things. It is a pity that there is a distance between us at all. But we will overcome it, my love!

I am writing this letter knowing that everything in it is sincere and beautiful. Everything is dedicated only to you, my extraordinary dream. Yes, by the way, about the dream .... I remembered something.... We spoke on the mobile. I wished you good night. And you hinted that I dreamed about you. My dear, I really want to dream about you every night! I want to fall asleep next to and wake up .... I'm sorry I want so much. But I have the right to tell you everything as it is.

You are the man of my dreams

Yes, we have not seen each other in life, but I fell in love with you so much .... I resisted my feeling, choosing not to believe in it. But love is very strong. She defeated me, burst out of her chest, flew into every line of this letter .... Love you…. Forgive me for that, if you can…. Just know, remember that you are the only one for me.

I am without you - a drop of dew, a rain on the glass, a grain of sand on the coast .... Be with me, my angel! I will be able to give you unearthly happiness. I need only one chance to carry out such a plan.

My love is real

You will understand that I am not lying if we are together. I need you…. More than air. You are my life. Because I love you madly. Anyone who fell in love on the Internet will be able to understand me.

I'm waiting for you, my bunny. You call me that too... And I am so pleased, so good from this. I am your sunny bunny that protects and loves you.

Continuation. . .

- Everything gentle, pleasant - to a loved one

What a pity that what has become for me
your existence is gone
my existence for you.

Everything happens in life (Kuch Kuch Hota Hai)

I always dreamed of seeing in her eyes the love that is in mine. And today, finally, I saw her. But she's not for me...

Boris Pasternak. Doctor Zhivago

All grief is that I love you, but you do not love me. I try to find the meaning of this condemnation, interpret, justify, rummage, delve into myself, sort out our whole life and everything that I know about myself, and I don’t see the beginning and I can’t remember what I did and how I brought this misfortune. You look at me somehow wrongly, with unkind eyes, you see me distortedly, as in a distorted mirror.
I love you. Oh, how I love you, if I could only imagine! I love everything special in you, everything profitable and unprofitable, all your ordinary sides, dear in their unusual combination, a face ennobled by inner content, which without this, perhaps, would seem ugly, talent and mind, as if taking the place of a completely absent will. . All this is dear to me, and I do not know a person better than you.
But listen, you know what I'll tell you? Even if you were not so dear to me, even if I did not like you to such an extent, still the regrettable truth of my coldness would not be revealed to me, still I would think that I love you. Out of sheer fear of what a humiliating, annihilating punishment dislike is, I would unconsciously beware of realizing that I do not love you. Neither I nor you would ever know. My own heart would hide it from me, because dislike is almost like murder, and I would not be able to strike anyone with this blow.

Five centimeters per second (Byôsoku 5 senchimêtoru)

I had a feeling that at least a little, but I understand why Takaki seemed different from the others, and at the same time, I realized that he would never look at me the way I dream about. That's why I didn't say anything to him that day. Takaki is very kind, but he is so kind, but only, only, only... His gaze will always be fixed on something far away, something higher than me. I will never be able to give him what he craves. And yet, and yet, I know that tomorrow, and the day after tomorrow, and always, I will love Takaki, no matter what happens.

Exchange Holiday (The Holiday)

Shakespeare said: "Everything ends with the meeting of lovers." A thought of rare beauty. Personally, I haven't experienced anything similar. But I would very much like to believe that Shakespeare succeeded. In general, I think I think about love more than I should. But it fascinates me that love has the power to turn our lives around. By the way, Shakespeare said another wisdom: "Love is blind." And to this I can subscribe. Someone completely inexplicably love disappears. And someone just loses his love. Well, of course, love can be found (albeit for one night). And there is a completely different kind of love - the most cruel. Such love leaves no hope for its victims. It's unrequited love... In romance novels, people mostly fall in love with each other. But what about the rest of us? Who will tell about us, about those who are alone in love? We are victims of a one-sided feeling. We are the curse of the world of loved ones. We are unloved. We are walking patients. We are handicapped without priority parking.

Robert Pattison

One-sided love is the most correct, probably. Don't be afraid that something will go wrong.

Margaret Mitchell. gone With the Wind

Do you think, I don't know, that when you lay in my arms, you imagined that I was Ashley Wilkes? It's a pleasant thing. A bit, though, like playing ghosts. It's as if there were suddenly three people in the bed instead of two. Oh yes, you were true to me because Ashley didn't take you. But damn it, I wouldn't be mad at him if he took over your body. I know how little the body means - especially the body of a woman. But I'm angry with him for taking over your heart and your priceless, cruel, shameless, stubborn soul. And he, this idiot, does not need your soul, I do not need your body. I can buy any woman for cheap. But I want to own your soul and your heart, but they will never be mine, just like Ashley's soul will never be yours. That's why I pity you.

Anna Gavalda. Just together

The only girl in the universe who can wear his grandma's scarf and still be beautiful will never belong to him.
Idiot life...

It's cold again, and again I'm bored, and you, as before, in the distance, I hope you remember me, as the SKY remembers the earth! ..
This year is the last one when I can congratulate you on St. Valentine's Day. You are in school for the last year, so today's congratulations are the last.
I don't know if you guessed that you would hear from me, but in any case, I think you assumed it.
The speech in the letter, I think you guessed it, will not only be about St. Valentine's Day. I will not burden you with my memories of your promises. I will not strive for anything. I just want to talk to you in this way, remember some moments with you, tell you something new ... Maybe my words will not affect you in any way. Well, let. Perhaps you will remember them later.
Soon the end of the school year and you have to pass the final and entrance exams. In this regard, I want to wish you good luck. First, I wish you good luck in your final exams and a good, fun, memorable graduation party, the last evening that you will spend at school ... By the way, I had the opportunity to go to your graduation ... and now you don’t need to speak with your terrible conceit and pride: “ They wouldn't let you in there, don't worry, they would let you in. I won't say why, but I could easily come to your prom. Do not be afraid! I won't come! I don’t want to ruin your graduation, I want you to have fun with all your heart with your friends without looking back at anyone, and I know that you can have fun ... If it’s interesting, I’ll tell you why I had such an opportunity ...
I wish you to enter the institute, well, successfully study there. Enjoy all student jokes, and all student time. And then, when you graduate from the institute, remember your student years with warmth in your soul and heart. And I believe, no, I know that you will go to college, that you will successfully graduate from it. I know that everything in your life will be fine. But more on that later.
I want to talk about 2004-2005, 2005-2006 academic years. All these years, I lived in the fact that I would see you at school, that I could say hello, that I could sometimes talk to you. I remember all our conversations, every word of yours, and I don't know if I can forget it all. Whatever was between us - friendship (if you can call it that), quarrels - I am grateful to you for everything. You, without knowing it, shed a bright light on my life. If something was wrong, if it became sad, then I had only to remember our conversations, your smile, then immediately everything became fine.
You probably can’t even imagine what it means to me to see you ... It’s such a magical feeling that you can’t express it in words ... Although, I think you notice my enthusiastic look and my cries to my girlfriends: “Oh, look, Ilyusha ! You know, it’s funny to me now that I can’t hide my feelings in any way, and that you notice everything (and not only you), and at the same time I understand that I wouldn’t be able to behave differently ... This is how I live at school since August 30, 2004 ... And for a year and a half nothing has changed ...
Although, I will not hide, at that time there was also a lot of pain, suffering, tears, experiences for me, but I don’t want to remember it now. And what love does without heartache?!
I'll let you in on a couple of secrets. When you were in 10th grade, I knew all your lessons. Now that you're at 11, I know everything too. And often I deliberately pass by the office where you have a lesson just to see you. And if you are not at school, then I feel very bad, I only think about you, and some bad thoughts. What if you got sick? What if something else happened? Because I can't imagine life without you.
Do you remember when you were in the 10th grade, we often met by chance on the way to school? So… It was not at all accidental. I knew about what time you pass near my house, and I went out at that time to meet you, to go to school with you ... These were unforgettable moments ... only this year you leave the house too late. Although that's not the point. That year you went alone, but now with friends... That's why I somehow don't want to go out at the same time as you... Now you know about all our "accidental" meetings...
And I have no idea how I will study next academic year. After all, you won't be at school... In the summer of 2005, I was looking forward to August 30 to see you at the training camp, to know that I would see you every day. This summer seemed endless to me ... It dragged on and on, and could not end in any way, but I was waiting for it so much !!! I was waiting for the beginning of the school year to enjoy every day, every meeting with you ... You know, I was terribly worried at the training camp, you were gone for a long time, and I already thought that you had moved to another school ... This is a terrible feeling, and I don’t even I know how to describe it in words… but you came, and only then I realized that you were already in the 11th grade, that this was your last year at school… I was so used to seeing you at school, looking after you, admiring you, drowning in your beautiful, bottomless, green eyes that I don’t understand what the next school year will be like ... However, I won’t talk about sad things ...
I don't know if we'll see each other after you finish school. I don't think so. If we just happen to run into each other on the street, and even then it’s under a big question mark… First of all, I will be reminded of you by your photo looking at me from the monitor of my computer. What, you want to ask what this photo is and where I got it from? I can only say that this is a photo from the badge ... But where I stole it from is a secret! Of course, your photo is not the main thing for me. The main thing when you leave school is memories of you, of OUR sms, of OUR calls, of OUR moments... OUR was not much, but still it was, and it's very nice (at least for me)...
Yes, I could call you at home, ask how you are doing ... But I will not do that. I do not want to bother you. You have your own life. And I have no right to interfere with it.
So thanks again for these 2 years. I will miss you very much…
You will go to college, where you will make new friends and acquaintances. I don't know if you'll meet your one and only there. Maybe you've already met her. I don't want to interfere in your personal life. I just wish you a huge, all-consuming love. They say that the swan has a law: the beloved dies, he also dies. Wings will fold and fall from a blue height. If you love deeply, so will you. And I believe that you will love like that ... Not everyone can love with all their hearts, with all their souls, but I know how it is not known that you can love like that. And love...
Maybe it seems strange to you that I wish you happiness, love ... I know one very good poem ... I don’t know who wrote it, but it exists.

Don't think I'm not offended
I know, I feel myself
That it's not me, not me, completely different
You need a girl in your life.

I want it to be true.
No trouble for you, no evil.
I want a gentle, kind heart
The girl loved you.

Loved so that another
Was not in the world for her,
To be alone her dream,
All I ask is: love her!

This poem should tell everything for me. I hope you understood everything.
You know, when I told about you and my feelings for you to one of my new girlfriends, she said: "He can't be bad if you loved and love him SO much." Interesting thought, right? A person who doesn't know you at all said that you can't be bad just because I love you SO much. This girl, not knowing you, already likes you well because of my feelings for you. And you really can't be bad. You are the best, only sometimes too proud. However, you know without me that you are the best.
Although sometimes I don't understand why you sometimes act like you have an iceberg instead of a heart. You're not like that! Although once you told me: “Oh, Nastya, you don’t know me for one percent.” I know. You can't even argue. Maybe I don’t know you 100%, but I still know ... I saw you the way you really are: a gentle, kind, sweet guy! Well, why are you wearing this mask of impregnability??? After all, I talked to you, the real one, talked to the real Ilya outside of school, why are you different at school? It’s not for me, of course, to decide what you should be, but you often take off this mask from yourself, believe a loving heart - it doesn’t suit you !!! But I must give you credit and say thank you for the fact that I saw you as real, that at least sometimes alone with me you were the way you are. I know that you are a deeply feeling person (although you often say not what you feel, but this is your business ...), some feelings tell me (although why some? It’s probably just love, or rather, not love, but the knowledge that she gives us ...), that I touched something in your soul and heart with this letter. I know that even if this is true (and it certainly is), you will not tell me this, and you do not need to. Do you think I don't understand? I understand!!! I’ll understand just by your eyes, by your smile, by the way you look at me, with what intonation you greet ...
I know that, in general, everything will be fine in your life. And I'm not saying this just because I want it. You really will be doing pretty well in life. I know it. Where? Just lovers know a little more than ordinary people.
And if something bad suddenly happens in a person’s life, because of which all friends turn away, then only parents and the one who really loves will not turn away. Naturally, I would not want something so bad to happen in your life. But if it's lonely, just call me, and I'll be there at any moment, in whatever situation you may be. When you want to see me - look at the starry sky. Ask for you to come - I will come. I will find you wherever you are...
You can say that I am saying these words now because I love you, but I will stop loving you, and the words will lose their power. No. Of course, someday I will stop loving you, but I will always have very warm, tender feelings for you. After all, people remember all their lives about real, first love, namely about love, and not about falling in love ... Although ... Still, people don’t just remember their first love ... You know, probably everyone deep down loves the person with whom this very first was love is tied. And it doesn’t matter whether love was unrequited or not, the main thing is that these were the very first real feelings ... And I have my first love connected with you, the first real feelings, the first tears of disappointment ... Therefore, I promise that if you need me, then I will be near. I will not be an eyesore to you, call every day, ask: "How are you?". You just stayed in my heart forever. I will never disown you, under any circumstances. When you are sometimes bored, and grief worries you, you remember that there is a heart in the world that loves you ...
By the way, I completely forgot to congratulate you on St. Valentine's Day!!! HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY!!! You know, if it's Valentine's Day, then I wish I could just spend this day with the one you love ...
I will miss you when you leave school... Because I won't see you again... Really, really miss...
Perhaps, reading this letter, you did not take anything seriously. But just in case, keep this letter, and someday, when you read it again, you will understand that I wrote sincerely, that all my words are true.
When you enter MAMI, please let me know. For example, send sms or call home. I promise that it will not go beyond your sms or your call. If you do not want to contact me, I will understand, and I will not be imposed. It's just my last request. Please try to fulfill it.
Every night, thoughts about you, like a starfall, fall in clusters and burn in the darkness, leaving only a burning trace of sadness and sadness ... I can’t drive away longing ... It flies like a small moth as soon as dusk descends, and imperceptibly sits on my shoulder, gradually turning into a big sad bird, wrapping its wings around me... I'm lonely without you... But I'll learn to cope with it. I will definitely learn to live without you, without your look. I will be able ... I will definitely be able ... After all, I will do all this not for the sake of anything, but for the sake of your happiness, and I cannot allow you to be unhappy, I cannot even think about it ... I really can live without you ... I will try to survive in this struggle with my feelings and your happiness... And your happiness will win... Believe me, I can... I'm already trying... I'm already getting it... And the letter?! And the letter had nothing to do with it... The letter was simply necessary... After all, these are my last words of LOVE to you... I could not be silent... I had to say this...

Yes, by the way, there is something that I spoke about in hints, not openly ... Both I and you understood what all these hints meant, but I was always afraid to tell you this openly, directly ... You know, actually I had a dream - to say these three words to you in private, looking into your eyes ... But, apparently, it will never come true, but you still need to say these words ... It’s difficult for me, a little scared, but still I’ll try to say it now , more precisely, write ... I LOVE YOU! Well, now you know everything...

Of course, that's not all I COULD tell you, but that's all I WANTED to tell you. Once again I want to repeat that after reading this letter you should not do anything. I didn't claim anything. I was just talking to you.

Goodbye! How sad is that word. Who just invented it?! For the language it is simple... Well, what about for the heart? And remember that for the world you are someone, and for whom you are the whole world ...

Yes, the world is not easy. Don't rely on everyone
There are very different people.
Live, hope, rejoice, fight,
But only one thing, one thing do not doubt:
In my love now and forever!
(Eduard Asadov)

P.S. - once again THANK YOU SO MUCH!!! For what? For reading my first letter to you with a declaration of love that my friends gave you on September 9, 2004, for answering the first letter, if not immediately, but answered, by the way, I heard your answer on October 20, 2004 .
For not hiding behind a mask of inaccessibility on December 31, or rather January 1, 2005, when I called you after the chiming clock, to congratulate you on the New Year, for the fact that then, on January 1, 2005, after my congratulations, wished me “never don't get upset this year." And I tried to get upset as little as possible, but sometimes it didn’t work out, because there were a dime a dozen reasons to get upset in 2005. For January 1, 2006, when I called you to wish you a Happy New Year. For those 10 minutes that we talked, I have enough positive feelings for the whole year! However, I did not understand which side of the monument is the right one. You then said that you and your friends always occupy the right side of the monument.
For reading my postcard - Valentine, and the poem enclosed there on February 14, 2005, for the fact that on February 15, 2005, on the way to school in the morning, I said "thank you for the poem, I was very pleased." By the way, at the same time, on February 15, with these words you, again without suspecting, “dissuaded” me from a terrible act. I wanted to leave home FOREVER, go to Moscow, but after your words, I thought: “What is Moscow? I'm fine here too! After all, there is HE ... ". I know, a stupid way out of a difficult situation is to leave home. But then I really wanted to take this crazy step. So thank you for helping me make the right choice with your words. If not for your words, I don’t know what would happen to me now, and you would hardly be reading these lines now ...
Thank you for not coming to my birthday party. I don't know if your mom really has a birthday on May 8, but it doesn't matter now, the main thing is that you didn't come. I don’t think you would have come if I had postponed my birthday to another day (because it’s May 4th, I just wanted to celebrate the 8th) ... Although now I’m extremely interested in what you would do if I postponed mine Birthday... But what's done is done.
Thank you for showing me your true face. For the fact that knowing about my love, did not look with a contemptuous look, paid at least some attention, at least somehow, at least told me something, and all your words, views were, are and will be very important and dear to me , because it all comes from a loved one, from someone for whom you don’t feel sorry for giving your life ...
Thank you for letting me understand with all your refusals that everything in life will not be the way I want, I have become wiser from all your words.
And thank you for reading this letter!

And something else. When I remember everything that I did, I understand that I do not regret anything. Not about my letters, not about my words, not about anything. And I don’t even think that I did something stupid when, on November 10, 2004, in almost all men’s toilets, I hung notes for you ... I hope you remember this. By the way, I still have one such note at home. It was glued on the ground floor in the elementary wing. It doesn’t matter where it comes from, but the memory of this crazy act will remain with me ... But if you want, I can give you this note!
I don’t think that all these actions were unnecessary ... Yes, now I wouldn’t do a lot, but then I did it because I wanted to and felt it. To be honest, I didn’t think about the consequences ... And now I understand that maybe I ruined your relationship with your friends with something ... If this is so, I’m sorry. I don’t know how your relationship with friends developed when I did this, but I didn’t want anything bad for you (and I don’t want to). You just have to understand me - then I really wanted to at least make friends with you! And I didn't have any other thought. That's all, I guess...

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